30 Tips for Recovering Love Addicts
By Jim Hall, MS, Love Addiction Specialist
If you are a love addict struggling with love and relationship addiction-- the following recovery tips may help you.
1) Don't date because you need to validate your sense of self or are desperate.
2) Don't marry because you are miserable or don't want to be alone.
3) Don't have kids because you think it would make things better.
4) Don't associate with people you can't trust.
5) Don't manipulate, control, cheat, lie, or be someone you're not.
6) Don't sleep around to get revenge.
7) Don't sell yourself short.
8) Don't give up your values to be with someone.
9) Don't stagnate!
10) Don't regress, go back to old patterns that bring you pain.
11) Forgive yourself if you make mistakes; we're all human.
12) Don't stay stuck in the past. Time can't bring anything or anyone back; sometimes, that's a good thing.
13) Don't put your life on hold for a "Prince" or "Princess".
14) Don't throw your life away with a partner who brings misery.
15) Learn a new skill; read a book; share and be authentic.
16) Find a new friend; one who is respectful; honest; and supportive.
17) Start a new career if you're unhappy in your current one.
18) Realize, sometimes, there is no race to be won, only a price to be paid.
19) To minimize your loneliness, attend support groups, volunteer, do positive affirmations.
20) Realize if you are alone or feeling lonely, it doesn't mean you're not worthy.
21) Nurture yourself; know you are worthy of self-love/self-care.
22) Reparent your inner child; tell him or her you are intrinsically valuable.
23) To increase happiness, pursue your passions & be the best you can be.
24) Let go of unrealistic expectations.
25) Get rid of destructive elements in your life: abusive friends, nasty habits, toxic liaisons.
26) Be responsible for your choices; you are an adult, not a child.
27) Don't abandon your responsibilities, but don't overdose on duty.
28) Don't live life recklessly without thinking and feeling for your family, friends, and yourself.
29) Don't commit when you are not ready.
30) Don't strive for perfection. It's impossible; strive for excellence and just do your best.
You might be interested in reading:
6 Signs Your Partner is Love Avoidant
8 Steps to Overcome a Breakup and Heal from Love Withdrawal
Withdrawal: When an Addictive Relationship Ends
12 Distancing Strategies Love Avoidants Use To Evade Intimacy
Love Addiction Relationship Cycle
Love Addiction Recovery Workbook
Learn about Surviving Withdrawal - Recovery Workbook for
Love Addicts in Withdrawal
Love Addiction Recovery Coaching
For over 13 years, I've worked with love addicts from all over the globe, teaching them vital steps to help get them unstuck.
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